The NSPCC is urging parents to carefully consider if their child is ready to be left home alone.
Last July and August, there was a noticeable increase in contacts to the charity’s Helpline from adults concerned about children being left unsupervised. Between April 2022 and March 2023, there were 11,428 contacts to the Helpline about neglect, with over 40% (4,717) specifically mentioning concerns about children being left home alone. This issue saw a particular rise during the summer holidays, with 1,015 contacts in July and August 2022.
For working parents, July and August can be especially challenging as they balance work and childcare. This year, the cost-of-living crisis may exacerbate these difficulties, putting additional strain on family finances and forcing some parents to work even more hours.
There is no legal age limit for leaving children alone, but the NSPCC and Government guidance advise parents to use their judgement, especially for children under 12 years old.
Infants and young children aged 0-3 should never be left alone, even for a few minutes. This includes visiting a neighbor or leaving children in the car while running into a shop. For older children, there is no one-size-fits-all rule, particularly if a child has complex needs. Parents and carers must decide when and where it is safe and appropriate to leave their child unsupervised.
A child who feels uncomfortable should never be left home alone. For those who are comfortable, it is vital they have contact numbers for a parent, carer, and another trusted adult in case they feel unsafe, uncomfortable, or unsure about something.
If leaving a child alone is the only option, the NSPCC website offers tips to help parents ensure their child feels safe. This includes checking in regularly and practicing emergency procedures.
Childline often hears from children left home alone for extended periods with minimal communication. Long periods alone can lead to fear and serious neglect.
One 15-year-old girl told Childline: “Mum has left us alone again; she keeps doing this. She just disappears for days, won’t answer anyone’s calls or texts. I’m so frustrated and angry with her. My brother is only 6. I can look after him myself, but I shouldn’t have to. I feel like no one is ever looking after ME.”
Kam Thandi, Head of the NSPCC’s Helpline, said: “Many parents struggle with finding the right time to leave their child home alone for the first time. Every child is different, and the right time will differ for every family.
"It’s crucial that children are involved in the conversation about when they may be ready for this and what they are comfortable with.
"Our Helpline will continue to support parents who are unsure about whether their child can be left home alone and for other adults who are worried that an unsupervised child may be at risk.”
Childline is available for young people via phone at 0800 1111 and online with a 1-2-1 chat on the Childline website. More information and advice on leaving children home alone can be found on the NSPCC website.
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